Do you know that there are different kinds of parents and there are different kinds of duties that parents should have?
Have you ever thought to about how to become a good parent ,if you are parent then these are few skills that you want develop to become a good parent further if you are not a parent these things will help you in near future, let’s look at the details
- Restraining you from wrongdoing
Children are like blank paper what we do, what we teach they will do that and they will imitate us.so to control them and restrain them from doing wrong things is number one priority for you as a parent. Wrongdoing things are such as quarrel with other children, selfishness.
- Guiding you towards good actions.
So now you child is not doing wrong things now you must guide him to do good things or good deeds. Good deeds can be very hard to practice but once you start practice those things results will be amazing. If you can make your child less selfish that is a good achievement. If you can make your child polite that is good thing. So as we discuss restraining from wrongdoing and guiding towards good actions are the basic requirement of good parent.
- Training you in a profession
To live a comfortable and meaningful life once should learn to earn money in peaceful way. Money is not whole purpose of life but to live a meaningful life there should be enough money to spend. To do that parent should guide their children to get education and skill based on children capabilities and interest. So training your child in a good profession is a key thing that parent should do.
- Supporting the choice of a suitable spouse
Human society has to continue in a civilized and peaceful way. To do that children have to find good partner and marry them .so supporting the choice of a suitable spouse in a suitable time is a very importing thing to do. So if you want become good parent this is something you should look in to.
- In due time, handing over the inheritance.
Everything has their own end. And it is common thing to life also. So handing over the inheritance in suitable time is utmost important thing to do.it will increase the children confidence and it will allow time to monitor their performance in managing the assets and businesses.
So these are few, but very important things that we can practice to become a good parent. You might have good ideas regarding this add those in the comment section. Further this article is base Buddhist principles.